On the way back to California, she realized there was little time to prepare for the wedding, so from Red Wing, Minnesota, she wired:
"MUST ORDER ENGRAVED WEDDING INVITATIONS NOW - WHAT IS YOUR MIDDLE NAME?"

"STRANGE" I wired back: it was my mother's maiden name.
"NO MATTER IF IT IS STANGE"

she answered. "WHAT IS IT?"

- Robert S. McNamara, "In Retrospect: The Tragedy and Lessons of Vietnam", pp.7-8

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